Don't go looking for trouble, don't go pick fights, don't go messing around with stuff that's best left alone! Just keep your head down, mind your own business , and you'll be okay!----

I sometimes wonder that if you follow this theory then will it be that you'll be served tea at night and blows in the morning... OR does it really work coz thats' what we've always been thought...
The truth is that there is a way in between both approaches... Heard of manners right... remember your mum told you that your drawing was "nice" even though you didn't even draw like Picassos' baby would have... thats' where we first learn the rules of diplomacy! HONEST.

I'm looking for a way to learn to draw a line between the two... Whats your opinion?